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Jim Tucker
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Sharon Hewitt Rawlette writes in her essay, Beyond
Death: The Best Evidence for the Survival of Human Consciousness—Another frequently recurring feature of these
cases is the presence, not just of verbally expressed memories, but of behaviors
that match what would be expected of the person in the previous life.
Phobias are one example. Ian Stevenson wrote that, out of 252 cases he studied
in which the death of the previous person was violent, in 50% of them, the
child remembering the death had a corresponding phobia (for instance, a fear of
water if they remembered drowning).
Other behaviors reported in children
with past-life memories are more idiosyncratic reflections of the past
personality they remember. A young girl named Rylann O’Bannion was afraid of
thunderstorms and told her mother she’d died in the backyard when there was a
loud noise and the rain shocked her. On another occasion, Rylann said she
remembered seeing a plane crash when she was standing in the yard. She also
remembered the name “Jennifer” and said the year 1971 felt “familiar” to her.
These clues helped Rylann’s mother discover a girl named Jennifer Shultz who
had died outside her home when a plane crashed into her neighborhood during a
thunderstorm. This Jennifer had been born in 1971. In addition to her memories
that matched Jennifer’s death, Rylann also exhibited behaviors that were later
discovered to match Jennifer’s. They both had the unusual habit of opening and
closing the drawers in their bathroom vanities, not to take anything out of
them but just to look inside. And both girls created owls from yarn that they
then perched on sticks. This commonality can’t be chalked up to a fad in
children’s crafts, as Rylann and Jennifer were born almost four decades apart.
More evidence for the
validity of children’s past-life memories comes from the fact that
psychological testing of the children who have these memories has not revealed
any connection with psychopathology. In fact, these children have
higher-than-average intelligence and are less suggestible than other children,
as measured by the Gudjonsson Suggestibility Scale.
Another interesting statistical fact is
that, among cases in which the death remembered is a natural (non-violent) one,
the lives remembered are roughly 50% male and 50% female. However, among cases
in which the death remembered is “unnatural” (a murder, a suicide, or an
accident), 73% percent of the cases are of male lives. This matches the general
statistics on unnatural deaths in the United States, where 72% are male. That
is, these children’s memories, evaluated as a whole, accurately reflect sex
differences in manner of death in the population at large.
The sheer number of past-life memories
that have been verified as accurate combined with the overall consistency of
the phenomenon points to past-life memories being much more than the product of
childhood imagination. Thousands of children have memories of lives that did
take place in another body. But does this automatically mean the survival
hypothesis is true? It has been suggested by some that these children are not
actually identical with or inhabited by the surviving consciousness of the
people whose lives they remember but instead are just accessing those people’s
memories by some not-yet-understood process that doesn’t involve the continuing
consciousness of the deceased. The idea is that either these children are
psychically accessing the past or are psychically accessing “dead” memories.
Little is known about
the mechanisms by which these memories present themselves to the consciousness
of the children who have them, but whether or not these children are wholly
identical with the people whose lives they remember, it is clear that at least part of the consciousness of those
people lives on in these children. In the strongest cases, these children not
only share the memories of the deceased but also multiple aspects of their
behavior/personality and even physical characteristics. Many continue to have
emotional attachments to people the deceased knew, in some cases still being in
love with their former spouses. Since memories, personality, and interpersonal
attachments are three of the primary characteristics we’re interested in seeing
survive beyond our death, it is hard not to see these children’s memories and
behavior as a kind of survival, even if only partial. (It bears remembering,
too, that survival, even while we are still in the same living body, is almost
always “partial,” in the sense that we are continually forgetting the previous
events of our lives and changing our personality and behavior to a greater or
lesser degree.)
Furthermore, these children generally
identify themselves with the person whose memories they carry. For instance,
the mother of one child with previous-life memories was trying to help him put
them behind him and live in the present, and so she told him, “Ryan, you do
know that you are not that man in the picture anymore. We just want you to be
Ryan.” According to Tucker, who investigated the case, her son responded “that
he was not the same as the man in the picture on the outside but that on the
inside he was still that man.” (There are, however, some cases in which people
with memories of previous lives feel some separation from that other
personality, in some cases even referring to them in the third person. See, for
example, the case of Kilden at the beginning of the next section, who
alternates between third- and first-person pronouns.)
Also, it’s important to note that near-death
experiencers corroborate children’s memories of previous lives in various ways.
For instance, many NDErs report learning about reincarnation during their NDEs.
Mary Helen Hensley, for example, was the daughter of a Baptist minister and as
a young person never gave the idea of reincarnation a second thought.
Nevertheless, when she had an NDE at age 21, she saw a play-by-play review of
her current life as well as suddenly remembering many lives she’d lived before.
She says, “Of the many things that I can remember [from the NDE], there is one
that I feel compelled to convey with certainty—I think it is important to state
that reincarnation is a fact.” Another NDEr reports, “After my NDE,
I understood that this life here is only one of many we have to go through. We
are bound to be born here time after time [until] we are good enough to go to
other dimensions permanently."
In addition, there are a
few accounts of NDErs who, while apparently out of their bodies but still
hanging around the physical world, remember attempting to jumpstart the
reincarnation process by entering the bodies of newborns. Here’s an excerpt
from an NDE account published in a London newspaper in 1935:
Then suddenly I was again
transported—this time it seemed to be against my wish—to a bed-room, where a
woman whom I recognized was in bed, and two other women were quietly bustling
around, and a doctor was leaning over the bed.
Then the doctor had a baby in his
hands.
At once I became aware of an almost
irresistible impulse to press my face through the back of the baby’s head so
that my face would come into the same place as the child’s.
The doctor said, “It looks as though we
have lost them both.” And again I felt the urge to take the baby’s place in
order to show him he was wrong, but the thought of my mother crying turned my
thoughts in her direction, when straightway I was in a railway carriage with
both her and father.
Interestingly, the NDEr went on to
report that he recognized the woman in labor as a neighbor of his. Upon
reviving in his own body, he told his parents that the neighbor’s baby was dead
because he couldn’t get into its body. They discovered afterward that the woman
in question had indeed delivered a stillborn baby that day (and had herself died,
just as the NDEr observed during his experience).
Sharon Hewitt
Rawlette has a PhD in philosophy from New York University and writes about
consciousness, parapsychology, and spirituality for both academic and popular
audiences. She lives in rural Virginia. She received an award from the Bigelow
Institute for Consciousness Studies for her essay “Beyond
Death: The Best Evidence for the Survival of Human Consciousness,” available at https://bigelowinstitute.org/contest_winners3.php. Footnotes in the essay are not
included in these excerpts.