NDE experience of love: Long excerpt #22

Radiation oncologist Jeremy Long writes in his article, "Evidence for Survival of Consciousness in Near-Death Experiences: Decades of Science and New Insights" - "The NDERF survey question regarding love requested a narrative response by asking, “If yes or uncertain, describe in as much detail as possible.” The narrative answers to this question described the love encountered in NDEs as immense, all-encompassing, and universal. As you read these quotes from NDErs about love, you can feel the passion in their words:   

There was nothing that was not love. This love is not what we know on earth. It has nothing to do with feelings. It is like transitioning from being unable to breathe to where everything is air. It is the essence of everything and what we are. I would not call it love, bliss, peace, or oneness. It is an indescribable sense of belonging to everything, being everything, and being home.

 

I was surrounded by unconditional and never-ending love. It was the origin, a fabric of all that everything is made of. It totally enveloped me and held me.

It is all and only about LOVE. We come here to love ourselves as a part of God. We also come here to love everyone.

"Near-death experiencers often describe the love in their NDEs as a part of everything, as if love really does connect everyone and everything. NDErs routinely express the love they encountered as all-encompassing and beyond any love they could have possibly known in their earthly lives. In NDEs, this universal, enveloping, and extraordinary love is consistently described. This regularly described unworldly love in NDEs exemplifies the remarkable consistency of spiritual content in NDEs. Here are more examples of love described in NDEs:

Love and overcoming the fear of death is what it's all about. There is no death. Light, love, and God are the same. Accessible and free.

I became aware of the totality of unconditional love and that it was endless there. Love did not have to be earned, as it was already offered to all who would accept it.

We are love, peace, and all that is on the other side. That is what our soul is made of, and that is what we should be sharing.

"Many near-death experiencers emphasized that the love they encountered was beyond human language:

The human word "love" can't begin to address true love.

Love wasn't a stand-alone and clearly defined item. It was part of everything else. It was pervasive.

The love I felt was indescribable. No words can describe how profound it was.

"For near-death experiencers discovering such all-encompassing spiritual love, this awareness can be life-changing. NDErs often become more loving and compassionate following their NDEs. Throughout history and around the world there have always been substantially different views of what love is. This makes it all the more remarkable that love in NDEs is described so consistently." 

Jeffrey Long, MD, "Evidence for Survival of Consciousness in Near-Death Experiences: Decades of Science and New Insights." In the next several posts I will share excerpts from Long's 2021 article. Footnotes have been deleted. The complete text is available as a pdf at https://www.nderf.org

NDE spiritual experiences: Long excerpt #21

Radiation oncologist Jeremy Long writes in his article, "Evidence for Survival of Consciousness in Near-Death Experiences: Decades of Science and New Insights" - "Another common spiritual message from near-death experiences is that every one of us is united in the afterlife. I will let the NDErs themselves introduce this important spiritual aspect of NDEs:

We are each pieces of a greater whole, as I understand it. Getting back where we can all be together again is the ultimate "going home.”

I felt a universal connection or unity, but it didn't seem mystical at the time. It just felt like this IS how it is. In retrospect, it appears mysterious or unearthly, but at the time it was apparent that everything is interconnected, and it was plain and simple.

I was aware of a oneness, a connection with God and all the other souls, and individuality.

I felt like a single atom as a single point of energy, surrounded by other energy. We were all connected; we were all infinite. I felt like I belonged. I felt at peace.

"Many near-death experiencers find themselves in realms vastly different from anything they knew from their earthly lives. It is rare for NDErs to encounter realms that are frightening or hellish. These unusual NDEs are sufficiently rare that they are outside the scope of this article but are discussed on the NDERF website.

"Unearthly realms in near-death experiences may be analogous to earth but enormously more beautiful. NDErs may encounter mountains, forests, streams, lakes, and dwellings which they often describe as distinctly unearthly in appearance due to their exceptional beauty, brightness, or scale. Wendy shares an example of this otherworldly beauty. During surgery, her heart stopped. CPR was started, and she had an NDE:

I came through the light and knew everyone there. They were delighted to see me and welcomed me home. All of them were dead relatives that I never met before, yet I knew everyone. They appeared in human form to allow me to recognize them. However, I sensed that was not their real form now. I was connected with everyone and had an almost a collective consciousness, though I cannot describe it. I feel so many emotions as I recall this. It felt like a blanket of love was wrapped around me when I came through the light before I saw everyone. There is no feeling here that can express the love or feelings I felt there. Everything was "pure", such as the brightest blues, greens, reds, yellows, whites, purples etc. It was like removing a filter so that I could now see the purity of everything.

I went to the right where I saw what I believe was God, who was pure energy. Yet you knew who it was and the great wisdom within. God spoke to me, stating that the message for me to bring back was love. We all have to live in love.

The next thing I saw was a meadow in the mountains of indescribable beauty. The sky was the bluest blue, and the grass was the greenest green. All colors here are extremely pale compared to there. I saw my grandmother with children running towards me. She took me by the hand, and we were on the beginning of a bridge over a small creek. I had just turned nine when she died. We talked for seemingly hours about my life since she died. We also talked about when she came to let me know that she died, say goodbye until we would meet again, and not be sad. She died of a brain tumor, yet now she was vibrant and healthy. I told her how much I missed her, and she said that she watches over my son and me. She then said something unexpected: She said I had to go back and it was not my time yet.

Jeffrey Long, MD, "Evidence for Survival of Consciousness in Near-Death Experiences: Decades of Science and New Insights." In the next several posts I will share excerpts from Long's 2021 article. Footnotes have been deleted. The complete text is available as a pdf at https://www.nderf.org

NDE light and love experiences: Long excerpt #20

Radiation oncologist Jeremy Long writes in his article, "Evidence for Survival of Consciousness in Near-Death Experiences: Decades of Science and New Insights" - "Any investigation finding evidence that consciousness survives bodily death would be expected to provide insight into what that conscious existence is like after bodily death. As you will see, the remarkably consistent spiritual content in near-death experiences provides this insight with a profound message of reassurance and inspiration for all of humanity.

"This section will review the spiritual content of near-death experiences. The word spiritual means different things to different people. Regarding the spiritual content of NDEs, the term spiritual will be used consistently with the Webster dictionary definition of spirit, which is: A supernatural being or essence. Consciousness in NDEs is apart from the physical body and may be conceptualized as a supernatural essence. The Webster dictionary definition of spirit makes no assumptions regarding any religious or other specific beliefs.

"An essential scientific principle is that what is real is consistently observed. In a previous section we found that when near-death experiencers see ongoing earthly events while out-of-body, they are generally exceptionally accurate. Given this, it is reasonable to believe that when NDErs consistently describe their often unearthly spiritual experiences, they are similarly accurate.

"The spiritual content in near-death experiences is often unlike what the NDErs could have expected based on their pre-existing beliefs. The spiritual content is often described as unearthly, which further contrasts the spiritual content in their NDEs from any prior earthly experiences.

"When near-death experiencers are in unearthly realms, they often feel overwhelming sensations of peace and love. Here are examples of the peace that NDErs experience:

I was more aware of how ridiculous my fears were and how they didn't compare to the intense peace and love I was feeling at the time. 

 

Indescribable joy, happiness, and peace.

 

Conscious of peace and love on a much higher level than usual.

"We will discuss the love that near-death experiencers encounter in detail later. For now, you can get a sense of the unearthly love commonly described in NDEs:

I knew the being I met was composed in its very atoms of a substance I can only call love. That substance created a force or power like electricity is here. Love is the only word I have. It is not the right word here.

I knew that love was the greatest force around us and that we are all love. Love is the only real thing. Hatred, pain, hurt, and all the negative things are not the way it really is.

Love was everywhere. It permeated the afterlife. It was incredible.

"I could go on with literally hundreds of quotes like these from near-death experiences, but you get the picture. The otherworldly love commonly encountered in NDEs is often powerful, overwhelming, and may be difficult to express in mere words. One previously published study analyzed hundreds of NDEs posted on the NDERF website to find the most common words used to describe the phenomenology of their experiences. The two most common words were light and love."

Jeffrey Long, MD, "Evidence for Survival of Consciousness in Near-Death Experiences: Decades of Science and New Insights." In the next several posts I will share excerpts from Long's 2021 article. Footnotes have been deleted. The complete text is available as a pdf at https://www.nderf.org

 

Shared death experiences: Long excerpt #19

Radiation oncologist Jeremy Long writes in his article, "Evidence for Survival of Consciousness in Near-Death Experiences: Decades of Science and New Insights" - “Shared near-death experiences are defined as occurring when two or more people have a life-threatening event simultaneously, with at least one person surviving and the other(s) permanently dying. They are aware of the other(s) during their experiences and often interact with each other. The surviving person, the NDEr, later describes the shared NDE. Shared NDEs are important, as they provide one of the most direct lines of evidence that what is described in NDEs is the initial experience of those who  permanently die. Here is an example:

I was in the car taking my girlfriend to her parent’s home in Welland. I fell asleep while driving. I then realized that we were out of our bodies and flying quickly upward while holding hands. We flew straight up for about a minute. We then saw a park or countryside-like landscape. Suddenly, we encountered four creatures. Two flanked each of us, and they began to separate us gently. They overwhelmed us with a feeling of the highest love and compassion beyond anything we could experience on earth. We were feeling a divine love. Therefore, we did not resist their effort. I felt sort of like a baby in mother's arms, though it's hard to describe accurately. Two of the creatures moved her upward toward the distant landscape, and two moved me back downward. I felt so much love, peace, and comfort that I wanted to protest and say, 'No, please let me stay here.' But I heard inwardly or psychically that I couldn't stay. Next, I saw my car in flames, from about a quarter-mile up above. I felt a falling sensation and awakened in the car. The front was on fire. I moved her from leaning on me, as she was when I fell asleep, knowing that her body was only an empty shell. I had left her above with the beings.

“Some shared near-death experiences include awareness of another person dying geographically far away or without the NDEr knowing that the person they encountered in their NDE was dying. An example of this is from Jennifer, who had multiple NDEs over a short time interval due to surgical complications. This shared NDE is remarkable given that her NDE occurred in Florida, yet she interacted with her uncle who died unexpectedly at the same time in Pennsylvania: 

During the other NDE I had, I was in my late uncle's operating room in Pennsylvania. My relatives and I did not know that Uncle Bill went into the hospital for elective surgery to remove some polyps. He wasn't ill, so it should have been an easy routine operation. I found myself together with him, hovering in the corner of his operating room, watching his medical team cover his dead body. We didn't speak or look at each other. He was not wearing glasses as he had in life. I had a shape or form, as did Uncle Bill. We communicated without speaking or using words. We communicated with a meaning that conveyed a knowing. I don't know how to express it. We watched them cover his body, and we then left the room. I understood that I was the only person of my relatives who was aware of my uncle's passing. After I recovered consciousness, I wondered why nobody talked about my uncle's death. Why hadn't anyone mentioned it? I then realized that they were not aware my uncle had died. This was confirmed when I asked what happened to Uncle Bill, and they didn't know what I was talking about.

“David was seriously injured in a severe auto accident that killed his friend. They shared an NDE:

It was like looking down through the branches of a tree. I saw a fuzzy and dark image. I thought, 'What is that?' My friend answered, 'I do not know, what is that?' The images were distorted like the sunlight seen from the bottom of a swimming pool. The dim fuzzy dark image was illuminated momentarily by brighter lines moving across our field of view. I said to my friend, 'That is my brother's car.' I saw a police car to the left, and a group of people behind the police car. To the right was an ambulance and another police car. My friend said, 'That is us.' At that moment, we both said, 'We are dead.’

“When shared near-death experiences occur, they may happen with observations of ongoing earthly events or in an unearthly realm. Lacee was riding with her husband on a motorcycle. They crashed, and her husband died. Lacee survived with serious injuries. They shared an NDE in an unearthly realm:

I began to fly through the tunnel, and the first thing I noticed was looking down at the embankment we had crashed into. I felt the pull to go further becoming ever stronger until I reached the tunnel where a light appeared. I continued fighting with all my strength to stop and not go further. Suddenly I was in a field of tall, beautiful, green grass. The grass undulated in waves, yet there was no wind. Overhead the sky was pink/rosy/purple. I felt a strong sense of well-being as if I were in a beautiful paradise, sort of like the Garden of Eden. My husband was walking towards me through the grass. We looked at each other, and without talking, I understood he had died. I knew we had to say goodbye at this moment. He let me know that he will be waiting for me, but I need to care for our boys for now. I was then back on the ground in my body and feeling overwhelming pain.

“Skeptics may say that near-death experiences may not tell us what happens to those who have permanently died. But shared NDEs, while uncommon, are significant evidence that NDEs are describing the actual beginning of a very real afterlife.

“Shared near-death experiences suggest that what occurs in NDEs is the initial journey of the irrevocably deceased. The NDERF website has received more than a dozen shared NDEs over the years, and they are available for review by anyone. These are among the most remarkable of NDEs and provide powerful evidence for the reality of NDEs and their consistent message of an afterlife.” 

Jeffrey Long, MD, "Evidence for Survival of Consciousness in Near-Death Experiences: Decades of Science and New Insights." In the next several posts I will share excerpts from Long's 2021 article. Footnotes have been deleted. The complete text is available as a pdf at https://www.nderf.org

Aftereffects of NDEs: Long excerpt #18

Radiation oncologist Jeremy Long writes in his article, "Evidence for Survival of Consciousness in Near-Death Experiences: Decades of Science and New Insights" - “Near-death experiences usually produce long-lasting changes in beliefs and attitudes. The changes following NDEs are collectively referred to as aftereffects and often take many years to develop fully. The aftereffects of NDEs have been extensively investigated. One of the earliest NDE studies found that NDErs were more likely to be self-confident, have a stronger sense of spirituality, reduced materialistic values, and have a greater appreciation of life. Over time, NDErs often become increasingly concerned about others. NDErs also may become progressively more confident that life has meaning and purpose.

People generally don’t make substantial and lasting changes in their lives in response to unreal experiences such as dreams or hallucinations. They also don’t ordinarily make considerable life changes after their experiences if they doubt that the experiences are real. However, near-death experiencers generally accept the reality of their NDEs and usually respond with significant changes in their lives.

One of the most common near-death experience aftereffects is an increased belief in an afterlife. Multiple prior studies confirm the frequent increased belief in an afterlife following NDEs. This is not surprising, as NDErs typically believe they personally glimpsed an afterlife.

The most recent version of the NDERF survey explores near-death experience aftereffects by asking questions about beliefs and values at the time of their NDEs and when they shared their experiences with NDERF. The responses to these questions are among the most remarkable in the entire NDERF survey. Over and over, the survey answers show enormous changes in the beliefs and values of the NDErs. There may be no other single life event in the lives of the NDErs that is associated with such sizeable and lasting changes in beliefs and values.

Jeffrey Long, MD, "Evidence for Survival of Consciousness in Near-Death Experiences: Decades of Science and New Insights." In the next several posts I will share excerpts from Long's 2021 article. Footnotes have been deleted. The complete text is available as a pdf at https://www.nderf.org

Verifying NDE life reviews: Long excerpt #17

Radiation oncologist Jeremy Long writes in his article, "Evidence for Survival of Consciousness in Near-Death Experiences: Decades of Science and New Insights" - "One of the more astounding aspects of life reviews is that some near-death experiencers relive their lives through the perspective of those they interacted with:

I went through a life review. The life review was all about my relationships with others. During this, I felt what they had felt in my relationship with them. I felt their love, pain, or hurt from things I did or said to them. Their hurt or pain made me cringe. I found myself thinking, 'Oooh, I could have done better there.' But what I mainly felt was love, so it was not too bad. No one judged me during this life review. There was no disapproval from anyone else. I felt only my personal reactions to it all while the feeling of unconditional love continued to saturate me. I judged myself, and nobody else judged me in this life review.

"Here is another example of a life review with awareness of the feelings of others:

I went into a dark place with nothing around me, but I was not scared. It was peaceful there. I started to see my whole life unfolding before me like a film projected on a screen, from babyhood to adult life. It was so real! I was looking at myself, but it was better than a 3D movie. I could sense the feelings of the people I had interacted with through the years. I could feel the good and bad emotions I made them experience.

"Life reviews with awareness of what others were thinking and feeling while the near-death experiencers interacted with them are robust evidence for a consciousness that transcends the physical. These types of NDEs support the reality of an afterlife with retained accurate and detailed remembrance of our entire lives.

"When near-death experiences occur, the NDErs are usually unconscious or clinically dead for only a brief time. The awareness of part or all of their prior lives during such a short time of unconsciousness illustrates the remarkable acceleration of consciousness commonly described in NDEs.

"I previously published a study investigating the reality of what is observed in life reviews. If near-death experiences and their associated life reviews are real, then it would be expected that the events in life reviews, even if long forgotten, actually did occur. I reviewed 617 sequentially shared NDEs and found life reviews described in 88 (14%). In reviewing these 88 NDEs, none of the life reviews contained any unrealistic content, either by my determination or the NDErs themselves.

"NDErs may become aware of events during their life reviews that they had forgotten. However, when they later investigated what they saw in their life reviews, they confirmed that the events actually occurred. Here is an example from Alma, who was 54 years old when she had her NDE. Alma was vividly aware of her early childhood during a life review:

A moving-art drawing of my life was presented to me, followed by another, and yet another. I was having a life review. I was moving in the drawings, and they showed me that I was kind to people at different ages of my life. At about two years of age, the first moving drawing was me chasing a butterfly that was teasing me to pursue it. I was giggling and having fun as I was playing with this butterfly. I had a pinafore edge dress on, was in a park, and running with the delight of being a little girl. I was sure that I saw myself in the moving picture drawings being presented to me. It was a life review, although I could not have known that at the time. I later saw a picture of myself as a child and recognized that I was in the same park as during my NDE. I was about two years old in the photo. I asked my mother to find a photo of me for a class project in 2017. I saw the pinafore dress I was wearing during my NDE.

"Life reviews consistently describe events that actually occurred in the lives of near-death experiencers. Virtually nobody has a perfect recall of every prior event of their life unless they have an NDE. Examples of over 150 life reviews are available as supplemental material on the NDERF website. NDErs that have life reviews can vividly understand how their actions affect others. This awareness helps them to make more loving choices for the rest of their lives. This observation, along with the remarkable acceleration of consciousness and verification of long-forgotten memories in life reviews, provides further strong evidence for the reality of near-death experiences and an afterlife."

Jeffrey Long, MD, "Evidence for Survival of Consciousness in Near-Death Experiences: Decades of Science and New Insights." In the next several posts I will share excerpts from Long's 2021 article. Footnotes have been deleted. The complete text is available as a pdf at https://www.nderf.org

Life reviews in NDEs: Long excerpt #16

Radiation oncologist Jeremy Long writes in his article, "Evidence for Survival of Consciousness in Near-Death Experiences: Decades of Science and New Insights" - "A life review during a near-death experience involves seeing all or part of their previous earthly life. Life reviews occur in about 20% of NDEs. The details described in life reviews may vary. One study found:

The most important finding of the present study is the evidence of a wide variety in the life reviews the subjects experience... The popular picture of the ‘whole life’ being seen all at once (panoramically) is false as a generalization about these experiences. Some subjects do indeed have this kind of experience, but the majority [do] not.

"The NDERF studies also found that the setting in which life reviews occur during near-death experiences can vary. In life reviews, it is common for NDErs to see pictures of their life flashing, as if on a screen. The life review may be a sequential order of prior life events, or it may skip around. There is often one or more beings with the NDErs during life reviews. NDErs almost never report being judged by other beings during their life reviews. NDErs report a range of emotions, including feeling happy or sad about what they see in their prior lives. Life reviews are among the transformative events that happen in NDEs. The lessons learned from the life review may help NDErs to live better lives after they recover from their close brush with death.

"Here are some examples of life reviews in near-death experiences:

My whole life was there for me to witness, much like a movie film of pictures filling up in front of me with a solid background. I was not aware of anything other than these pictures. I would not call this 'my life flashing before me' because it was still and entirely present. Knowing and experiencing each emotion ALL AT ONCE, and not one after the other, was incredible to me.

There is no way to describe the immaculate beauty of this experience, though I've tried every day for the last 35 years. I wish I could find a way. Bliss is a merely descriptive word. 'Bliss' is close yet does not convey what I wish I could. I saw and experienced every detail of my present life up to that moment. It was like watching a movie yet starring as the main character while everything happened simultaneously. As I had not lived my life in a state of serene joy, I felt quite sad and ashamed. I re-experienced every moment of my life in refined detail, including feelings, thoughts, sounds, smells, people, loves, hates, anger, sorrow, fear, happiness, fun times, food, everything up until I was in the Goldenness. It was like I relived my life, but from the standpoint of a witness.

"Some life reviews include awareness of only part of their prior lives:

It was so natural. We discussed my life while I relived what seemed like portions of it. The review proceeded from the oldest event to the youngest event and only stopped when I seemed uncertain of my actions at the time. There was no condemnation, right or wrong. I felt complete acceptance and understanding with only one loving 'don't you think you could have done it this way' type of comment. You judge yourself!

"One of the more astounding aspects of life reviews is that some near-death experiencers relive their lives through the perspective of those they interacted with:

I went through a life review. The life review was all about my relationships with others. During this, I felt what they had felt in my relationship with them. I felt their love, pain, or hurt from things I did or said to them. Their hurt or pain made me cringe. I found myself thinking, 'Oooh, I could have done better there.' But what I mainly felt was love, so it was not too bad. No one judged me during this life review. There was no disapproval from anyone else. I felt only my personal reactions to it all while the feeling of unconditional love continued to saturate me. I judged myself, and nobody else judged me in this life review.

"Here is another example of a life review with awareness of the feelings of others:

I went into a dark place with nothing around me, but I was not scared. It was peaceful there. I started to see my whole life unfolding before me like a film projected on a screen, from babyhood to adult life. It was so real! I was looking at myself, but it was better than a 3D movie. I could sense the feelings of the people I had interacted with through the years. I could feel the good and bad emotions I made them experience.

"Life reviews with awareness of what others were thinking and feeling while the near-death experiencers interacted with them are robust evidence for a consciousness that transcends the physical. These types of NDEs support the reality of an afterlife with retained accurate and detailed remembrance of our entire lives."

 

Jeffrey Long, MD, "Evidence for Survival of Consciousness in Near-Death Experiences: Decades of Science and New Insights." In the next several posts I will share excerpts from Long's 2021 article. Footnotes have been deleted. The complete text is available as a pdf at https://www.nderf.org